{"id":42575,"date":"2013-11-26T13:49:04","date_gmt":"2013-11-26T19:49:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.austincnm.com\/?p=42575"},"modified":"2013-11-26T13:49:04","modified_gmt":"2013-11-26T19:49:04","slug":"kind-life-creating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2013\/11\/kind-life-creating\/","title":{"rendered":"What Kind of Life Are You Creating?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.austincnm.com\/index.php\/2013\/11\/kind-life-creating\/tgiving_craft\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-42576\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-42576\" alt=\"tgiving_craft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.austincnm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/tgiving_craft-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a>If people were to judge my life in random five-minute increments, I wonder what they would walk away thinking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t kid yourself, we\u2019ve all done it.<\/p>\n<p>To the mom in the grocery with the screaming baby. <i>Well, that\u2019s what happens when you bring a baby to the store during naptime.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>To the guy who honks his horn for you to press through the yellow light. <i>Jerk.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>To the elderly couple walking too slow on the terminal walkway at the airport. <i>Why can\u2019t they just stop holding hands and move aside? People have flights to catch!<\/i><\/p>\n<p>To the lady who insists that every child must wash his hands before playing with the toys. <i>Overprotective, much?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>As I\u2019ve pondered this reality and my infallibility over the last several weeks, it\u2019s made me mindful of how I treat the people I love the most. We have a motto in our household: kindness, respect and gratitude. We say it to the kids often, usually when one whacks another with a school book or hip checks someone while walking by. But, how much am I really practicing it? How kind, respectful and grateful am I to the people I gave birth to and the man I pledged my love to 17 years ago?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s a rhetorical question, in case you\u2019re wondering.<\/p>\n<p>This week we celebrate Thanksgiving. No surprise there. But, somehow this notion of \u201cgratitude\u201d has become lost in the holiday. Don\u2019t worry, I\u2019m guilty, too. While I was out running errands this morning, mentally checking off my to-do list, I ran into an old friend. We talk often via email, but I rarely get to see him. As he gave me a hug and loved on my youngest, he said this: \u201cMan, you sure do have a lot to be thankful for this year.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Man, don\u2019t we ALL?<\/p>\n<p>Our lives are filled with gifts\u2014the intangibles, not the fluff at the StuffMart. How are we nurturing those gifts? How are we creating moments that, when lumped together, create a beautiful life? As you cook that Thanksgiving meal this week, pray for the people eating it. As you embrace those you love, think about those who spend the holidays alone. As you begin making your Christmas lists and decking the halls, consider serving those who have nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the greatest lesson I\u2019ve learned this Thanksgiving is to be content. To be at peace. And, to start cherishing my life in five-minute increments so that it reflects who God truly wants me to be.<\/p>\n<p>Happy Thanksgiving, y\u2019all!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If people were to judge my life in random five-minute increments, I wonder what they would walk away thinking. Don\u2019t kid yourself, we\u2019ve all done it. To the mom in the grocery with the screaming baby. Well, that\u2019s what happens when you bring a baby to the store during naptime. To the guy who honks&#8230;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2013\/11\/kind-life-creating\/\">[Read&nbsp;More]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[2087,397],"class_list":{"0":"post-42575","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-blog","7":"tag-gratitude","8":"tag-thanksgiving","9":"entry","10":"has-post-thumbnail"},"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":140580,"url":"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2015\/08\/why-kids-are-pro-life\/","url_meta":{"origin":42575,"position":0},"title":"Why Kids Are Pro-Life","author":"Britt Echtenkamp","date":"August 17, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"Yesterday afternoon, while walking through HEB with my family, a hurried mom with her two little girls rushed by us in the coffee aisle. 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