{"id":420013,"date":"2017-06-12T21:34:52","date_gmt":"2017-06-13T02:34:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/?p=420013"},"modified":"2017-06-12T21:34:52","modified_gmt":"2017-06-13T02:34:52","slug":"freedom-relationship-god-galley-slaves-free-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2017\/06\/freedom-relationship-god-galley-slaves-free-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Freedom &#038; our relationship to God: Are we galley slaves or free children?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/atxcatholic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/evening-sun-2383966_640.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-420016 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/atxcatholic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/evening-sun-2383966_640-550x309.jpg?resize=550%2C309\" alt=\"\" width=\"550\" height=\"309\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In the echoes of Trinity Sunday, I found myself thinking about how we are called to relate to this mystery that is the Triune God, and how we are made in the image of God. \u00a0The priest reflected on this during his Sunday homily, about how it&#8217;s pretty much impossible\u00a0for our minds to capture how it is that God is Three Persons in One. In this great mystery, I love how\u00a0our faith is always inviting us to reach beyond what is easy or superficial, always pointing us to a higher plane or a deeper understanding.<\/p>\n<p>The second reading on Sunday from Paul&#8217;s letter to the Corinthians gives us a glimpse of the mystery of the Trinity:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The <em>grace<\/em> of the Lord Jesus Christ<br \/>\nand the<em> love<\/em> of God<br \/>\nand the<em> fellowship<\/em> of the Holy Spirit be with all of you.&#8221; (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/readings\/bible\/2corinthians\/13:11\">2 COR 13:11-13<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>An eternal communion of grace, love and fellowship&#8230;And so I got to thinking on how I relate to God. And you know, sometimes \u00a0I think it would be way simpler and easier if He really WERE an old man sitting on a mountain of clouds, keeping a list of who&#8217;s naughty and nice. That way, it would be much easier to just gain my brownie points and call it done. And although just reading that sentence makes me cringe &#8211; it&#8217;s true that I sometimes act that way! For example, have you ever found yourself&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;feeling bitter or resentful because things aren&#8217;t going your way?<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;feeling smarted because you haven&#8217;t gotten the accolades or blessings you think you deserve?<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;digging your own hole deeper in the dirt because you&#8217;ve been so rotten?<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;leaning on other people&#8217;s praise (or conversely, &#8220;taking a stand&#8221; against other&#8217;s criticism) in order to get a sense of who you are?<\/p>\n<p>I think most of us fall into this kind of thinking and acting, at least some of the time. \u00a0It&#8217;s as if we got stuck in the 10 commandments and forgot what Christ said in the Sermon on the Mount. When we&#8217;re anxious, or perhaps when we&#8217;re first just getting the hang of spiritual life, that kind of by-the-book obedience might be \u00a0natural or even helpful.\u00a0And if it is a signpost or starting point to the Kingdom of God, it definitely isn&#8217;t the thing itself. That kind of relating to God seems to me like the obedience of a slave, not the love of a child or a friend. In Christ, we are children of God &#8211; and even He called us His friends, not slaves! (John 15:15). When I start getting confused about where I&#8217;m going, this is one quote that always comes back to me:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>In the royal barge of divine\u00a0love, there are no galley slaves, only free rowers. &#8211; St Frances de Sales<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>God made us in His own image, and freedom is an essential part of that.\u00a0And while freedom is one those things that\u00a0often inspires us and encourages us (myself included), I have to be realistic that it is a much more challenging way to relate to God. Said another way:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;We do not want to be slaves but free children who do what\u00a0the Father tells them in the spirit of faith [&#8230;]&#8221; &#8211; Fr. J. Kentenich<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In the spirit of faith! That means out of freedom and love &#8211; again, as in the Sermon on the Mount: &#8220;<a name=\"48005040\"><\/a>If anyone wants to go to law with you over your tunic, hand him your cloak as well.<a name=\"48005041\"><\/a>Should anyone press you into service for one mile,<span style=\"font-size: 13.3333px;\">\u00a0 <\/span>go\u00a0with him for two miles. (Matt 5:40-41)&#8221; To fulfill not just God&#8217;s laws, but God&#8217;s merest wishes out of freely given LOVE.<\/p>\n<p>All those reactions I mentioned above don&#8217;t stem from that kind of relating to God. And actually, this is where I find freedom such a deeper challenge: <strong>our God given freedom entails a God given responsibility for self.<\/strong> In all of those reactionary examples above, it seems to me that we&#8217;re fighting against that responsibility either by wanting to hold someone else responsible for our life (like the old man on the cloud), or we&#8217;re hiding from our own self responsibility (kind of like the ostrich move), or we&#8217;re so possessed by \u00a0our own self will that we forget that we were created to be responsible TO someone other than our selves\u00a0\u00a0(i.e., I&#8217;m really <em>not<\/em> the only show in town, in fact, I&#8217;m just about the least important one!)<\/p>\n<p>One last thing to think about: Fr Kentenich describes this childlike obedience as &#8220;endlessly magnanimous &#8211; and as frank as a child.&#8221; Both things! <strong>Magnanimous <em>and<\/em> frank.<\/strong> Generous giving of self in love and also frank openness of heart before God! A slave doesn&#8217;t share his opinion with his Master, and certainly doesn&#8217;t talk back. But a child, with all simplicity and frankness, will cry out when he is hurting or doesn&#8217;t like something. And that&#8217;s what it means with God too &#8211; to talk simply with Him about\u00a0our struggles, to tell Him when we don&#8217;t understand what He&#8217;s doing in our lives and to ask for the help to love Him more and understand His will.<\/p>\n<p>While I can&#8217;t say striving for childlike freedom &amp; obedience before God is easier than the way of the indentured servant&#8230;I do think it&#8217;s a heck of a lot better adventure!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the echoes of Trinity Sunday, I found myself thinking about how we are called to relate to this mystery that is the Triune God, and how we are made in the image of God. \u00a0The priest reflected on this during his Sunday homily, about how it&#8217;s pretty much impossible\u00a0for our minds to capture how&#8230;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2017\/06\/freedom-relationship-god-galley-slaves-free-children\/\">[Read&nbsp;More]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":88,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4,90,2976,91],"tags":[2672,138,3330,3332,1660,859,3329,3331],"class_list":{"0":"post-420013","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-blog","7":"category-faith-blog","8":"category-prayer","9":"category-young-adult","10":"tag-childlikeness","11":"tag-freedom","12":"tag-holy-trinity","13":"tag-relationship-to-god","14":"tag-spiritual-life","15":"tag-spirituality","16":"tag-st-frances-de-sales","17":"tag-trinity-sunday","18":"entry","19":"has-post-thumbnail"},"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":117456,"url":"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2015\/05\/sunday-says-may-31-2015-mass-readings-and-reflection\/","url_meta":{"origin":420013,"position":0},"title":"Sunday Says &#8211; May 31, 2015 Mass Readings and Reflection","author":"Crist\u00f3bal Almanza Herrera","date":"May 30, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"The Solemnity of the Most Holy Trinity Lectionary: 165 (NAB Translation) The Sunday after Pentecost is celebrated in honor of our God as the Most Holy Trinity. 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