{"id":32076,"date":"2013-01-09T09:51:23","date_gmt":"2013-01-09T15:51:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.austincnm.com\/?p=32076"},"modified":"2013-01-09T19:17:18","modified_gmt":"2013-01-10T01:17:18","slug":"10-steps-to-a-stronger-family-in-2013","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2013\/01\/10-steps-to-a-stronger-family-in-2013\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Steps to a Stronger Family in 2013"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"10steps\"<\/a>

Don’t you just want to meet that guy up in the tree?<\/p><\/div>\n

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Our Lord WANTS our families to be strong, holy, healthy and fun! But, in this busy, automated and digitized world, it\u2019s all too easy to lose our cohesiveness as a family. Strong families are families that enjoy each other, spend time together and are aware of the great gift of family that God has given them.<\/p>\n

Here are a few ideas to help you keep your family strong this year:<\/p>\n

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  1. Prayer Intention of the Month<\/strong> \u2013\u00a0 as a family (youngest to oldest) write a list of 12 prayer intentions. They could be general intentions, such as praying for our Holy Father, for our civic leaders, etc\u2026or you can get specific: “Help Janie find a new friend, bless Grandpa during this first year without Grandma”, etc\u2026 Then, dedicate one intention for each month of the year. Post your list in your home, on the kids bathroom mirror, in your planner and remember the intention during family prayers at night before bed! It\u2019ll be fun \u2013 a secret mission!\u00a0 At the end of the year, go back and look at your list. You might be surprised to see how God has answered your prayers!<\/li>\n
  2. Learning Your Faith \u2013 Family Style<\/strong> \u2013 I\u2019m NOT saying ditch religious education at your parish! No, we love our RE programs! Rather, find a way to learn about your faith as a family as well.\u00a0 Watch a movie about a saint,<\/a> go to a class offered at your parish, do a family scripture study. This Christmas, we gave our family Fr. Robert Barron\u2019s The Catholicism Series<\/a> as our family gift. We will watch \u00bd an episode once a week and discuss what we\u2019ve learned. We\u2019re super excited about this opportunity!<\/li>\n
  3. Do Something CRAZY!<\/strong> \u2013 Crazy, but good! Discover something fun and a bit out there that your family can do together. I recently learned of a friend whose extended family does flash mobs in restaurants and at mall food courts. They\u2019re very musical, and very brave, and have surely created some great memories! Maybe that\u2019s not your style? (me neither, but I’m in total awe) How about running a 5K as a family? Or going on a zip line? Try snorkeling or learn to crochet. Take a pottery class as a family. Find something that you have NEVER done, that you can do together this year and have fun!<\/li>\n
  4. Family Fun Nights<\/strong> \u2013 We started these last year with my family and we\u2019ve enjoyed them tremendously<\/a>. I even have a Pinterest page dedicated<\/a> to them! Choose a weekend evening (we like Friday) and designate it your \u201cFamily Fun Night\u201d. Find a list of movies that you can watch, or games that everyone enjoys. Let your kids cook dinner, or order pizza and make a fun dessert. The point is, reserve some time for you and your family to spend together, every week. Sure, there will be some weeks where it won\u2019t work out, but that\u2019s okay. Just make a commitment, as a family, to be together – and not just to fold laundry or clean out the garage.<\/li>\n
  5. Read Together<\/strong> \u2013 Find a classic and read it.<\/a> As a family. Seriously, you will love it. You\u2019ll feel like Ma and Pa on the prairie sitting before the fire\u2026 well, at least I do. Anyway, turn OFF the TV, put away your \u2018shiny clicky things\u2019 (that\u2019s what I call them) and read. You probably have some great books on your shelf already. Or, you can ALL listen! Librivox<\/a> is an \u201cextensive collection of free audio books read by volunteers; the goal is to record every book in the public domain.\u201d Public domain means old. Old books = good books. Don\u2019t EVEN get me started\u2026 My favorite reader on Librivox is Karen Savage. <\/a>She has recorded dozens of great classic books and you can listen to them for FREE!! Yay!<\/li>\n
  6. Go Somewhere New<\/strong> \u2013 plan a family trip somewhere new to everyone. This doesn\u2019t have to be expensive, it can even be a simple, day trip. I\u2019m sure there\u2019s some interesting little town nearby that you\u2019ve always been interested in visiting, but have never had a chance. Look up the historical guide to your town or county and visit one of the interesting places nearby. Find a cool museum. In my hometown, there is a Toilet Seat Art Museum<\/a>. Yes! What 10 year old boy wouldn’t want to go there!?<\/li>\n
  7. Family Service Project<\/strong> \u2013 Find a ministry at your church, or an organization in your community that needs help. Volunteer as family to work at the food bank, to organized baby clothes at the pregnancy center, to make Thanksgiving baskets for the poor. Just do it all TOGETHER (getting the theme here?) and enjoy a great opportunity to serve. You\u2019re children will never forget\u2026.<\/li>\n
  8. Family Meetings<\/strong> \u2013 find a time each week (Sunday nights seem to be best for us) where you can all gather together. Talk about the upcoming week, let each person share what they will be working on, any special meetings, school events, tests, etc\u2026\u00a0 Share prayer requests, special chores. \u201cGrandma is coming, we\u2019ve gotta get all that junk out of the guest room pronto!\u201d.\u00a0 It\u2019s also a great time for Mom and Dad to go over the weekly schedule.<\/li>\n
  9. Eat Together<\/strong> \u2013 you already know this, I\u2019m sure, but how can I leave it off the list!? And, as our children get older and busier, I\u2019ve found it really is<\/i> harder to make family meals happen on a regular basis (I had heard this in the past, but didn’t really believe it. Now I do!). So, make a point to eat a peaceful, beautiful meal together – something that has been planned and prepared with a little thought. In our family, we try to make our Sunday meal a very special time. That is when I might make a new recipe, or a new dessert, or even let the children help prepare something. Serve Sprite instead of milk or water, light a candle, tag on a little extra prayer at the end of your \u201cBless Us O Lord\u201d. If you need a little convincing on why this is important, let me introduce you to this series from Auntie Leila<\/a> and her blog ‘Like Mother, Like Daughter’. (one of my clients, and all time favorite blogger in the universe)<\/li>\n
  10. Be An Awesome Spouse<\/strong> \u2013 yes, you know it! While this is a family<\/b> list, it is very difficult for our families to be strong and fruitful if our relationship with our spouse is sputtering. Be sure to spend time together \u2013 just the two of you. Set a time to go out to dinner. A time to sip on a glass of wine and talk about your dreams (not just child logistics or finances). Go out of your way each day to make life a little easier for your spouse.\u00a0 Your family is here because you two decided to enter into this marriage and receive the many blessings our Lord had to offer! Make sure your marriage remains a #1 focus of your daily life<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    “Your vocation is not easy to live, especially today, but the vocation to love is a wonderful thing, it is the only force that can truly transform the world” – Pope Benedict XVI (at the 7th World Meeting of Families in Milan, June 2012)
    \n<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

    That’s all I have for now. How about you? What did I leave out? What would you add to the list?<\/p>\n

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