{"id":29657,"date":"2012-12-20T05:30:03","date_gmt":"2012-12-20T11:30:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.austincnm.com\/?p=29657"},"modified":"2012-12-20T10:10:54","modified_gmt":"2012-12-20T16:10:54","slug":"making-room","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2012\/12\/making-room\/","title":{"rendered":"Making Room"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday at mass we heard one of the infancy narratives, the one from Matthew (at Tuesday daily mass &#8211; \u00a0right now\u00a0it&#8217;s Wednesday night!). We&#8217;re getting closer and closer to end of the Advent season and the start of Christmas, so we&#8217;re starting to hear more about Christ&#8217;s birth.<\/p>\n<p>On Christmas (well, at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/readings\/122512-mass-at-midnight.cfm\">Midnight Mass<\/a>), we&#8217;ll hear a different infancy narrative, the one from Luke. From Luke we&#8217;ll hear the familiar words:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;She wrapped him in swaddling clothes and laid him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn\u00a0(<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/scripture.cfm?bk=Luke&amp;ch=2&amp;v=50002001\">Luke 2:7<\/a>)&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>We&#8217;ve all seen the little reenactments of kiddos dressed up as Mary and Joseph knocking \u00a0at inn after inn, only to be turned away because there is<em> &#8220;no room.&#8221;<\/em> This phrase came to my mind a week or so ago while I was driving around in traffic &#8211; I can&#8217;t remember if I let someone in, or if they let me in &#8211; but this thought came to mind &#8211; how <em>good<\/em> it is to &#8220;make room&#8221; for others in the world. How good it is to make room for others; how good it is when others make room for you. It&#8217;s one of those proverbial &#8220;little things&#8221; that makes the world a better place. But I&#8217;m totally serious &#8211; no sentimentality here &#8211; it really <em>does\u00a0<\/em>bring goodness into the world.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.austincnm.com\/index.php\/2012\/12\/making-room\/no-room\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-29667\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-29667\" alt=\"No Room\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.austincnm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/No-Room.jpg?resize=306%2C306\" width=\"306\" height=\"306\" \/><\/a>When we stop and consider others, when we take a moment to recognize their humanity (no those aren&#8217;t just steel boxes zooming around and getting in your way &#8211; there are human being inside those cars!), then the dynamic shifts, empathy kicks in, and the world gets a little more humane, and a little more holy.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m as guilty as the next person of giving in to the temptation of road rage &#8211; just this morning I was inwardly fuming because multiple people (seriously, like 4!) were driving 5-10 mph below the speed limit between Austin and San Antonio &#8211; and just on those spots where you can&#8217;t pass people too! \u00a0I found myself getting frustrated and feeling stressed about making it to work on time &#8211; so I did what I always do when I can feel my stress\/frustration rising &#8211; I took some deep breaths and \u00a0said a few Hail Mary&#8217;s. Works almost every time (to re-center myself, not make the car in front of me speed up, haha!)<br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-29770\" alt=\"ACNM-Advent3\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.austincnm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/ACNM-Advent3.jpg?resize=125%2C250\" width=\"125\" height=\"250\" \/>So that&#8217;s my simple reflection today, and my Advent challenge. Today, make room for others in the world. Make room for goodness to be born into the world through you &#8211; make room for the infant Christ.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a couple ways I thought of to make room for others &#8211; please post your own, too! Let us know how it goes &#8211; \u00a0post a comment and share!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the little things that make a difference &#8211; but seriously.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>let someone into traffic ahead of you<\/li>\n<li>let someone else go down the grocery aisle first &#8211;\u00a0don&#8217;t push past people with your cart or cut them off<\/li>\n<li>hold the door for someone<\/li>\n<li>refrain from tailgating<\/li>\n<li>ask someone how they are doing and then<em> listen<\/em>\u00a0to what they reply (EXTRA challenge: Take it a step further and listen to how often you relate things back to yourself in conversation, instead of just taking in what the other is saying! Ex: &#8220;Oh your boss was rude to you today? Well let me tell you what <em>my boss<\/em> did last week&#8230;&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday at mass we heard one of the infancy narratives, the one from Matthew (at Tuesday daily mass &#8211; \u00a0right now\u00a0it&#8217;s Wednesday night!). We&#8217;re getting closer and closer to end of the Advent season and the start of Christmas, so we&#8217;re starting to hear more about Christ&#8217;s birth. On Christmas (well, at the Midnight Mass),&#8230;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2012\/12\/making-room\/\">[Read&nbsp;More]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":88,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"{title}\n\n{excerpt}\n\n{url}","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[90],"tags":[384,383],"class_list":["post-29657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-faith-blog","tag-advent","tag-christmas","entry","has-post-thumbnail"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":186143,"url":"https:\/\/atxcatholic.com\/index.php\/2015\/12\/186143\/","url_meta":{"origin":29657,"position":0},"title":"Sunday Says &#8211; December 13, 2015 Mass Readings and Reflection","author":"Crist\u00f3bal Almanza Herrera","date":"December 13, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"December 13, 2015 Third Sunday of Advent Lectionary: 9 (NAB Translation) The Third Sunday of Advent is unique among the four and marked with the rose colored candle and vestments. 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